Have I always been wrong? Or are you guys really that... Ugh.
I mean seriously... I really do not understand you... Why are you trying to be what you are not? And it's sooo obviously fake that even I can see it. Because the Bible says you have to be accepting, understanding, loving, etc?
Don't use the Bible as an excuse please.
First of all, you are trying to be accepting. There is a difference between trying and being. And all it ends up is giving people this feeling that is very fake.
Besides, with you inputting all your Christian stuff, what part of you is being accepting? You're just trying to enforce your Christian ideals onto others who do not agree with you.
And being understanding? You can't even understand me, a fellow Christian. What more of understanding other people, other non-Christians? Or is your idea of understanding is to make sure the other party thinks like you for you to understand them?
I know what the Bible says. You don't have to tell them to me. I also know what are the Christian stand are on many issues. So just because I don't agree with them means you have to convince me that my way is wrong and yours is right?
Sorry, but the world isn't so black and white.
Ugh. And then you conclude that you want to be my friend and help me grow in my character. Grow? Or manipulate? You have no idea how close I was to snapping at you. For the love of God, you want to argue your stand, at least make logical arguments.
Yeah... Agreeing that us humans are sexual beings and then saying that we cannot have sexual thoughts make sooo much sense. -_-
Saying you understand... Ha. If you do understand, you would not be saying what you said.
But I'll be nice and give you credit. At least you tried.
Still... Don't expect me to be that nice... You want to be my friend? Personally, (no offence) you're not the kind of person I would want to befriend. You would just drain me. Seriously.
Still, if you want to be insistent, then all you'll be is a friend in name only. Sorry. I pick my friends very carefully.
I cannot stand facades, masks and other fake images. You... are oozing fakeness all over. And I can't stand it. Why? Because you have an image to uphold? If you want to uphold your image so much, take it somewhere else. Or at least improve your faking skills. Yours is so obvious, it makes me cringe.
By the way, it gives me great pleasure to watch you squirm when talking about grey areas on sexuality in Christianity. Sorry. But I am not so thou-art-holy, and honestly, your attempt to be my mentor/leader is... Blargh.
To me, a leader needs strength in character. I know I need to be stronger, and I am not all that strong, but you. I can so easily overwhelm you that it's disgusting.
For God's sake, grow a spine and make your own decisions and judgements instead of just agreeing with everything Christians preach about. I've heard it all, and it just sounds like some broken recorder.
And trying to psycho-analyse me on why I don't trust Christians is a bit retarded. Must I trust all Christians? Just because you are a Christians means I can let my guard down? Sorry. You have to prove yourself trustworthy first.
I am an accepting person. But I don't offer my trust that readily. Doesn't mean that I have some childhood trauma about Christians or that because when I was younger I wasn't accepted by Christians, or I have some resentment towards Christians, etc. I am just not that stupid to trust everyone that calls themselves Christian. After all, you're just as human as I am. Why should I trust you so readily?
Ugh. Sometimes, I really wonder... Am I really completely wrong about Christianity and Christians... Or are you guys really that screwed up? ARGH.